‘I’m Not a Feminist.

In an interview with 234stars, Annie said she is not a feminist and does not believe that a woman can be King. Annie says a woman can only be a Queen and not a King. When asked if she is a Feminist, she said: ''No, not really but I believe in women empowerment. I believe that men…

Men Cause 100% of Unwanted Pregnancies

Lifestyle blogger Gabrielle Blair (@designmom) shares her thoughts as to why men are ultimately responsible for preventing unwanted pregnancy. It's a long read but worth reading, so dive in and share your thoughts... I’m a mother of six, and a Mormon. I have a good understanding of arguments surrounding abortion, religious and otherwise. I’ve been…

How to get your Husband to support your success.

So i came across this on my timeline. A training session on how to get your husband to support your success. This really make me mad, because I have never come across a training session teaching men “how to get their wives to support their success.” I am tired of seeing things like this. I…

Abolish Bride Price?

Bride price is an important aspect of marriage traditions in Nigeria. It is a system put in place to symbolise the act of a parent(s) giving away their daughter to her husband. However, due to its commercialisation, some people who asking for it to be abolished. They argue that paying the bride price makes some…

Men who depend on Women should have their Testicles removed…

Did she say the right thing? The advice was, "Don't be in a position where your partner supports you financially 100%. Always, ALWAYS have your own change"- This message is applicable to anyone, Male or Female. Why is it okay and acceptable for a woman to sit back and let her husband hustle but if…

My Money is My Money.

And the two shall become one, the Priest proclaims. And from then on “My Money becomes your Money” The woman relinquishes her Vagina to her husband because they have become one flesh and the whole “my body becomes yours” mantra. But do we really become one? I think individuality in marriages should be encouraged. My…

Is Happily married a Myth?

Person 1: I have been married for 10 years. Person 2: I have been happily married for 10 years. That word "happily," does that mean happy all through the years? Marriage is a mixture of happy moments and sad moments. some moments where you are so vexed and you cannot even stand being in the…

Should a working woman receive allowance from her husband?

So, I heard a couple of Nigerian women discussing on TV about their husbands giving them a monthly allowance. "My husband should give me my monthly allowance", they said. Like kids expecting pocket money from their parents. Mind you, these are working women, earning a salary and still expecting their husbands to give them monthly…

Women are the Favour Factor..

I think men and women are different. I believe women are not more special than men. No gender is more special than the other.  We are made to complement each other. So we need to stop telling women all these crap about them being special and how men should be grateful to have them. I…

Is sex a right in Marriage?

I was watching a Nigerian TV programme and the discussion was, "Can a man rape his wife"? Whenever that question comes up, I am always gobsmacked by the responses I see. One of the presenters on the show said that according to the Nigerian constitution a man cannot rape his wife. In response to that,…