Life happens….

It has been a year since I lost my dad. This happened just over 2 years after I lost my mum. So, for me it was double grief because I was still grieving for my mum. The pain of loosing someone you love is overwhelming. And, to deal with grief twice, in such a short…

Nigerian senator assaults woman in public

This is Sen. Elisha Abbo, a Nigerian senator assaulting a woman, who told him to "take it easy" after he accused the shop owner of insulting him. https://youtu.be/gytVthn2ar0 This incident highlights the way women are viewed in the society. On a daily basis, women and girls in Nigeria are discriminated against solely on the basis…

Gender Equality starts from the home

Therein lies the problem. You want equality, but you don't want it in the home. How does that make sense? The home/family is the bedrock of the society. It is the first level of social structure. Whatever happens in the home spills into the society.  https://youtu.be/7CuE1gtFe2w How do you expect to raise kids in a home…

Busola Dakolo Opening Up On About Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo COZA

Busola Dakolo, popular photographer and wife of musician Timi Dakolo has accused Biodun Fatoyinbo, Pastor Commonwealth of Zion (COZA) of raping her as a young virgin girl. https://youtu.be/nboxRGAINgI

Bible, Women and LGBTQ

“Properly read, the Bible is the most potent force for atheism ever conceived.” ~ Isaac Asimov I walked away from religion because I read the Bible myself and I realized that the Bible God hates Women. Which is the reason I do not believe that you can be a Christian and a Feminist at the…

Discrimination against Nigerian Women

So, i came across this list and i was really surprised that Nigeria was not among the top 5. I believe that any country that is religious will oppress and subjugate the women. That is what religion does, it discriminates against women. Which is exactly the case with Nigeria. Nigerian women are regarded as subordinate…

Nse Ikpe-Etim opens up

Nollywood actress, Nse Ikpe-Etim recently opened up about her struggles to conceive and revealed that she would not be able to have a child because she has removed her womb. https://youtu.be/lbljBzbAUY4 She was diagnosed with a condition called Adenomyosis which implies that the inner lining of her uterus breaks through the muscle wall of the uterus which left…

Don’t kill yourself because a side chick slept with your husband- Pastor Funke Adejumo

Funke Adejumo is advising women what to do, if they find out that their husband is having an affair. She says: “'Why must you kill yourself because one stupid girl slept with your husband? Don't ever go and fight with the woman. Infact, you should top up your dressing and make sure you walk in…

“Women are less happy once they get married”

This is a Thread by @WordsByDoobz which i found really interesting: Women are less happy once they get married. Men live better lives when they get married" makes perfect sense. Most het men are taught to be dependents but it's not called "being dependent" instead they are told "find a strong woman". Which usually means she…

Gender Stereotype In Nigerian Ads

Hey, i'm back from my Hiatus..... So I bumped into this ad by So Klin Nigeria. And I also see a lot of Nigerian Ads on TV, whenever I am watching Nigerian Tv Channels and they are so annoyingly gender stereotyped showing only the woman doing the cooking, cleaning and cleaning. Men are rarely portrayed…